The order is wrong. Again. Food steaming, along with your temper. Disgusted, you roll your eyes.
What. Are. You. Doing?
Is it worth it to allow something like this to ruin your evening? Stop acting as if the establishment has a personal agenda against you. Do you think they want to be bombarded with complaints and disdain?
Events don't determine happiness. It's how we react, that matters.
In the end, your food order isn't the problem. It's the order, or lack of...within. Accept. Now, see the bad feelings wash away.
Who knows, maybe the apologetic waitress used to be an Ad Exec, and lost her job. Or, the cook is preoccupied with his sick father's condition.
The next time you are quick to point the finger ask, "Am I reacting, or overreacting?" Who knows, a sympathetic smile could deliver a free dessert... of happiness, with a cherry on top.
Showing posts with label love. happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. happiness. Show all posts
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Thursday, November 5, 2009
flight.
You. A fountain of smiles and pool of energy. Constantly showing eyes of compassion and the embrace of strength to others. Reassuring them, the future will happen...no use forcing life into fast-forward.
Putting your hands on my shoulders you speak in an even tone, "It will happen. I have no doubts. You will do this."
Your words work magic and lift me up. By the time we are finished, I feel my feet leaving the ground. High on the taste of your friendship.
Wait, why are you still on solid ground? Come up here with me. You did this. You helped me see my true self.
I notice your defeated smile. Empty eyes. How did I miss it? I've allowed the kind words to blind me to the most important thing. You.
After all, you weren't really talking to me...were you? You were talking yourself into something great. But, lacked the faith to strap on those wings. Please, look in the mirror...utter that magic spell again. I only wish you treated yourself as well as you treat your friend.
Putting your hands on my shoulders you speak in an even tone, "It will happen. I have no doubts. You will do this."
Your words work magic and lift me up. By the time we are finished, I feel my feet leaving the ground. High on the taste of your friendship.
Wait, why are you still on solid ground? Come up here with me. You did this. You helped me see my true self.
I notice your defeated smile. Empty eyes. How did I miss it? I've allowed the kind words to blind me to the most important thing. You.
After all, you weren't really talking to me...were you? You were talking yourself into something great. But, lacked the faith to strap on those wings. Please, look in the mirror...utter that magic spell again. I only wish you treated yourself as well as you treat your friend.
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